My question is why did you feel the need to start two new threads on this topic and bump yourself four times on one of them over the course of an hour?
Perhaps the answer to this question will give you insight into issues you might need to work on. It smacks of extreme neediness.
yes it does. Please do NOT tell your h no matter how much you want to rationalize telling him. It reeks of revenge AND OR the need to feel desired and to show him so...nothing positive can come of it.
If it's not an "ongoing affair" and clearly it isn't, then there is NO value in telling him of your mistake. If you felt single, which you don't, that's a different story but I'd still see zero value in telling him.
It can only backfire on you and makes you look a tad unstable/uncommitted.
What is your goal with your h? Focus on the goals you have and work toward them. What are they?
I don't know where your other threads are but if you post in ONE, I'll follow along.
Good luck
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
