Husband Filed for Divorce Today

[BklynMom]

There is no easy answer. But I would say don't project into the future. Today is a good day and your daughter is safe and happy. You do not need to worry about your d emotions regarding something that hasn't happened yet. Know that other kids go through similar scenarios and with loving support from loving parents they adjust.

Also write a gratitude list. You have a healthy kid, a job in this losely economy And I am sure there is more.

If at all possible you need to spend money to make things easier on you. Being a single parent is impossible. Staying cool calm and collected so so hard. Maybe there is a 11 yr old girl in the neighborhood that can come over and play with your d while you do the dishes or laundry or read a trashy magazine.

A girl on my block has been coming over and I give her $5 an hr but her parents won't let me give her more then $20 in a week.

Hang in there. You are blessed:)