I'm sorry about the fights lately between the two of you. Never fun. Try your hardest to validate her feelings the best you can. Bustorama has some of the best advice on this if you can search his name and look up his posts. Take care!
Me: 32 H: 32 M 9 yrs #1 D7 #2 S5 #3 D2 Bomb 8/12/11 H moved out 8/14/11 PA started w/H & OW in 1/12 - found out 3/24/12 Got my own place 8/25/12 H & OW move in together 9/15/12 Still married.