I have received very little advice from this board, but I am all ears. What can i do now to turn this around, without losing my sanity?

M-31, W32
S12, S9, S8, D3
M 12 Years
Bomb dropped: 4/30/12 ("I need to be happy")
EA discovered: 5/8/12 W denied
PA unsure
Moved out 7/6/12