Husband had affair and I believe is in MLC

[tested metal]

Rachael,

I agree with Snod and T.

Think of it this way.

By asking, what do you have to gain?

compare that to what you may stand to lose.

If you have NO expectations then then it should not matter at this point.

This is one of the toughest skills to master, I have found. I repeatedly called my STBXW on her affairs and now I am on a speeding train to Dville.

It may have been inevitable, but I now ask myself, would it have been different if I just would have kept my mouth shut?

One thing I am constantly reminding myself of is that once something is learned, you can unlearn it and you can't unring a bell.

Good Luck!