TM, I wish you the best tomorrow. Try to remain calm and speak in a calm voice. If you have to speak to her, look her in the eye and make sure that eye contact is made. She needs to see that you are not playing around w/your child's future.
I thought that may be the case about the calls, but it's always interesting to see how an mlcer sees it...all for them and none for you when it comes to attention and funds.
I am so sorry that this is happening to you and your little one. I am hoping that there is some sort of agreement made that will be good for your daughter.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.