I’m glad that you and others enjoy reading, because I feel reluctant to post given where I find myself and the pain that I know all too well of many on these forums ... As I mentioned to BM above, I am happy that my story might help others.
That's why you don't need to feel reluctant Aside from just being happy for you, I know I get inspiration seeing that it CAN happen, and getting an idea of what it looks like when it does. I'd still like to think my road might one day lead in the same direction and it's nice to get a look at what it's like. But even if it doesn't, it's nice to see someone in that position!
Me: 36 Her: 35 Together 7/09 Married 8/7/10 Separate rooms since at least April 11 "I've decided I want a divorce" 12/5/11 She moves out of state/files 2/7/12 Dissolution final 5/12