You can stop fighting over me, Harrier/unbidden!! Ha-ha!
I actually understand both your POVs. In spite of her decision, I still pray and hurt for her. More than anything, I would like our son to have mom and dad living happily under one roof in the near future, with the caveat that mom fixes herself, wants to work on US and then WE fix US.
I have always ensured our son knows that mom loves me very much and will continue to do so. There's no hers or mine ownership. In fact, that's the reason why I've 99% of the time used "our son" rather than "my son" in all of my posts here or anywhere.
