I'm not offended, but I think you are way off base here. but the real point is how does this help Alamo? It doesn't. In fact, it smacks of righteousness that can get a lot of people in trouble.
You simply do not know what his W is thinking/feeling about her son. I try to reserve judgment in these type of situation because we are only getting probably 1/3 of the truth here. I know you want to support Alamo. That's fine, but making those kinds of statements isn't really support.
Study after study shows that kids who do well after divorce, succeed because the parents are cooperative and can be civil if not friendly. I know Alamo wants to give his son the best chance. Encouraging negative feelings about how much his W doesn't love his son isn't good. IMO.
Patience is bitter, but its fruit is sweet. --Jean Jacques Rousseau.
