ooops I meant to say I'm trying NOT to read into the big picture about him saying he's easily led.
One other thing, I think tonight was a reminder that you never know what's going to happen or when so obsessing about it is pointless. if you'd asked me a week ago I would have said that I never would have dreamed that H would invite me to have dinner. In fact Cheryl said that I could mention that me and S were going to do something and casually invite him and I was like yeah that'll never work because he's very "I'm in a relationship" mode. But then this happened tonight. And we had fun.