Feeling like a boomerang. Back again! ARG!!

[Serenity13]

LOL... My friend, I can do NOTHING without Him. I am just a willing vessel, therefore, He gets all the credit, not me.

Is this lot all about "saying" to the significant other that "this is what it's going to be like without me"??

No and that is where you are looking at this with the wrong eyes, this isn't about her, this is now about YOU and what YOU want out of YOUR life.

I can now look at it as a door He opened for me, it was up to me to walk through that door, to see what was waiting for me on the other side.

I chose not to wallow, not to disect each and every single word or action, and not to allow it to steal my joy (granted it did take me a couple of years to get to this place LOL). However, the choice is YOURS... What you going to do with it, is completely up to you.