I'm sorry that I seem to have offended some people here. But, the fact remains that she did not have to move at all. She CHOSE to move to further her career and left her son behind. IMO, she did not love him enough to put him first. I agree that a 3 1/2 year old needs a mother and that she should have stayed with him. But she chose to leave. That speaks volumes. Note that I did not say that she does not love her son. I said only that she did not love him enough to put him ahead of her career. That is obvious from the facts. She still should have regular contact with him and I never said that she shouldn't.
