If she chooses to move and leave her son for her career than she really does not love him enough and does not deserve custody. Prayers for you all.
No offense but that is a ridiculous thing to suggest. You have no idea of her motivations or how she feels for her child. Many LBS treat their families with downright contempt prior to the bomb...does that mean they don't love their children or deserve custody. You really have no idea what she's going through.
I mean Alamo admitted to having a porn problem - does that mean he doesn't deserve custody?
Patience is bitter, but its fruit is sweet. --Jean Jacques Rousseau.
