Two months is not a lot of time, although it feels like an eternity to us. Remember, your W has been dealing with this internally for a lot longer. It is going to take a long, long time.
How have the swaps been done in the past? Is it always that early in the morning? How W and I swapped has changed many times since this started, so I wouldn't worry about it.
Unfortunately, the only thing you can do right now is detach, GAL and 180. Concentrate on you. Do what makes you happy. Don't do things that you think will make your W happy. This time is about you.
Before the bomb was dropped on me, I used to say I couldn't do this or that because of my commitments with the kids and wife. I used to enjoy the one or two hours I would get to myself. Now, I get blocks of time to myself when the W has our Ds. Now I have the time to do all the things I "wanted" to do.
You can use this time for you or you can waste it worrying about things you can't control right now.
Just keep moving forward.
M-40 W-33 D3, D4, SD13 T 9 YEARS M 5 YEARS ILYBINILWY APRIL 2012
