I'm sorry, it does look like he's lying to you. But don't beat yourself up. He could just break it off and not miss dates with you and lie right to your face about it.......
Whatever you do, I hope if you are not having sex wih him. He lies about a lot, and there is a good chance he is lying about this just being a pa. Not a risk willing to take if your know what I mean. You need to protect your health.
I think maybe it's time to set some boundaries with him and ow.
I not only agree, I thought we had all discussed, and AGREED on that? Starting at LEAST with "no more talking about OW to me" ????
Never make someone a priority who sees you as an option.