I can understand your frustrations, (here's my but) but don't detach yourself too much, sometimes people judge a scenario wrongly, like your H might have thought if I make a call it might feel like I'm being annoying, I'll just wait for her to call. Just a plausible example of many possibilities.
What I'm saying is, that it is normal to feel impatient, just don't act on it & leave yourself open to possibilities of positive interactions without expectations & see what happens.
Remember if you are closing the door to possibilities, you'll never know what might or might not have happened.
You must, must, must enjoy yourself though - that's an order!!
Bill
Me 34 W 32 D 9 S 6 M: 9 years T: 12 Bomb: 02/11/12 EA/PA: 12/17/11 - ongoing Moved out: Oct 2012 Joint Filed for D: 2/11/13