H came to drop off S4. S4 was asleep. I didn't initiate conversation just asked if he would stay a bit so I could shower since D1 kept waking up.
I expected him to leave right after, but he followed me around the house to tell me about their day. He also called me on his way home to ask me about my day.
I am coming to realize that as I detach, he will stop doing this since I won't be initiating emotional attachment. This is HARD!!!!!!
M 42 H 39 T10 (-2yrs separation) S8 D5 DD 7/30/11 (EA&PA) Reconciled 6/2013 Separation in works 1/2017