Well, just to be clear, I don't dislike him, I just don't enjoy him, don't know how to operate in a healthy manner around his idiosyncrasies. I've talked to him adnauseum regarding the issues I have, which he simply translates to complaints and criticism. Perhaps he could do something about it but chooses not to, perhaps it's simply beyond his capacity. Either way, it doesn't happen. I'm just tired of trying, seeming to be the only one trying, the only one that even recognizes there's a problem.
It's not like I've got someone waiting in the wings that I'm itching to start my new life with. I'm not in danger physically, he isn't draining our finances, I don't have a reason to do anything now. So if waiting has a benefit for S, and makes it easier for everyone else too, then that's what I'll do.
