I don't know what he wants as he doesn't talk about it. We haven't had a R talk for over a year. At that time I had asked that if he was going to D me, please let me know in advance as I didn't want to be surprised by being served. He said something like, "I'm not even thinking about that."
When we see each other, which isn't often, he's cordial, friendly but stand-offish. Still wears his wedding ring. We're going to refinance the house as a married couple.
I just keep living my life. I try not to think of it as limbo because I can change my life at any time.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss
At that time I had asked that if he was going to D me, please let me know in advance as I didn't want to be surprised by being served. He said something like, "I'm not even thinking about that."