I guess I was expecting that after 2.5 years of separation would mend some wounds, but my wife's healing may be only just beginning. Perhaps the distance from our son and the space will be what she subconsciously need.
Originally Posted By: alamo76
I'm debating if I should chance it and give her a hug. After all, like our son, we'll also be transitioning from seeing each other everyday to not be seeing each other for 2.5-3 months at a time.
You'll know whether to give a hug or not. Just don't force anything.
It may not feel like it, but seeing her less will be good for both of you right now.
I'm curious, but what is the D status? Was mediation about that or just your son?
Hang in there man, we're pulling for you.
Me: 30 W: 28 T 8, M 6 S: 7-27-2007 W filed (again) 3-2011 Served 8-2011 Responded, now dark "I have decided to stick with love. Hate is too great a burden to bear" MLK