I just think it's funny that I had an idea this was happening. The last week or so I kept asking him if he was starting to like anyone or found anyone he wanted to date.

He kept saying no and asking me why I kept asking him.

Our arrangement was that we could continue to ML as long as neither one of us was involved with or interested in someone else.

This allowed H to think that it was purely physical, and I could keep that connection with him without scaring him off.

I would never consider seeing someone until I'm officially D'd and it'll much likely be a long time after that before I'm ready to even consider the idea.

So even though he hasn't even told her that he likes her and I doubt it would go anywhere if he did, I had a feeling that this was happening.

Not that any of this matters, but at least I know that I'm not crazy.


M36 XH34
M-5 T7
4/11 H confused
5/11 ILYB
6/11 OW discovered
7/11 I move out, OW over
5/12-OW2,done->new EA, but H wont file
9/12 H "best bf ever" to EA/OW3
3/13 H/OW break up
H files 4/13
D 6/18/13