Mmmm, there's nothing quite as comforting as wrapping oneself up in the "victim" cloak, to ensure that all the problems in one's marriage or sexual relationship fall squarely on the shoulders of one's partner, allowing a person to remain as naive and sexually immature as when he or she was a teen....
Many people learn to move their marriages and relationships beyond this initial impasse that every young couple runs into. It takes work, personal growth and a willingness to overcome one's blind spots to truly love oneself and another ... but is definitely possible and worth it.
