The reality is, that is in the past. I have learned and I hope I have made the changes in myself that will help me to not follow that path, again.
I am sure my W has a different perspective and her's is no less valid than mine.
Right now, I do not have the choice to R. IOW, my W is not talking to me about a future together. Unless that happens, it's not a choice for me.
It is what it is, for me. For those who have that choice, what appears to be the case for Jamie, then why choose out if there's a possibility to choose R?
