When it's a one-way street...part 7

[adinva]

Hey thanks, I know you care, and your head-on style matches mine so it's really ok. I am having a toothache that is breaking through the vicodin I took so I'm on edge, but also where my sitch is at it's incredibly painful to try to accept your point of view as analagous to my H's. It's like me trying to help him feel better about what he's doing while I'm going through it.

I've said before that I don't expect cheerleaders from this site, and I'm trying to put my money where my mouth is.

But the idea that I basically suck and my H is justified in what he's doing makes me kind of want to crawl in a hole. So it's a hard role-play, this exchange with you.

I think it's good that you're here trying, but you've got to find a way to see your perception as the thing to work on, or I just don't see how you'll make headway.