How can you tell if S is coming around?

[ChristineE]

What a surprise that one of my old threads is resurrected! This takes me back to such a crazy time...but then it all has been! I can now answer my own question and maybe lend some insight.

I started this thread when I was very confused by my H's actions and words. He was softening and things seemed much better between us, but almost every day, he would remind me that he was moving and that he wanted a D. He still would created conflict out of thin air but they were fewer than they had been. These posts were at the beginning of Jan and, on Jan 23 (funny how these dates stick in your mind), we had our "reconciliation" if you will.

So really, to answer some of the questions posed here, my H was SAYING that he wanted a D even after the first time (post bomb) we ML. It turned around very quickly therafter, but he was in the D mode through the whole thing. In some ways it seems very odd. It's as if something just snapped.

Christine