The difference between dark and where you are now is that W knows you're sitting on the edge of your chair just waiting to take her back. When you go dark they start to wonder if the door is still open or if you have moved on and that's what you want
Married 18, Together 20, Now Divorced M: 48, W: 50, D: 18, S: 16, D: 12 Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 7/13/11 Start Reconcile: 8/15/11 Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 5/1/2014 (Divorced) In a New Relationship: 3/2015