Yes when I was talkinng to Cheryl she kept saying that I need to assume the good and look for the positive. I have a tendancy to say yes he did or said x, BUT..... and I need to stop.
In fact he sent me a very long text after that about his car issues and instead of thinking he's sharing his life with me I thought....that must have been meant for someone else. ARGH and what did I do send a very short reply because I thought that wasn't really meant for me.
