I am still MANAGING my expectations. And I think what I took from this is sometimes our feelings don't reflect the reality of the sitch. I was feeling disconnected and a bit hopeless but in reality our interaction is still warm and friendly and fun.
This is so true Brit. And sometimes I think that's why my mind starts to play tricks on me AND I overlook some of the positive as well.
I am glad you had such a wonderful and positive interaction is morning with H :-).
I have been following the martyr convo as well, it has given a lot of food for thought. Good for you for you to ask for a favour. It does sound like it would actually be a benefit to you, H and S. I am still not ready to do this. I admire you so.
Have a great day Brit :-)
TPS Me: 44 H: 42 M14 T17 S10 D7 10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month 21/04/12 H is 'DONE' 04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010) July '14 H ends affair May '15 H moves back home