She was not on a date with the guy from my church group, my church group friend and his wife saw her with some unknown guy. When she knew she was spotted, she later went to their table to talk to them and my friend asked her to leave. Apparently a bad enough scene where W and OG left.
She called me to tell that she felt the church friend thought she had been dating for a while. She said this was the first date she's been on. Why would she care to tell me that, is she worried about her reputation with me?
I had previously told W that I thought the separation was where she wanted space to breath, to work on herself. That I know understood she is moving on. Implying I was ready to accept it and move on myself. After later talking with my brother, he felt she is trying to make me pull the trigger so she doesn't have to accept responsibility, that I divorced her. Like she had no choice.
I don't think I can do this if I know she is dating other guys. Right not, I think my plan is to do nothing. Just wait and she what she does.
