Thanks Tsquared I was in bed when he came home, now up because I can't sleep. I knew it wasn't gonna be a fairy tale. This friend my husband was with is divorced and my husband has been friends with him since childhood. He is a nice guy but my husband hung out with him sunday night and now this evening.
My h called me 3 times or so while he was out to ask a question about our son but I didn't answer til the last call. told him my phone was turned down which I did after one of his calls. Just didn't want to be so available. He finally called our son himself which is what I tell him to do. He always asks me about the kids but doesn't call them himself. Then he wanted to know where I was which was at home after I went to excercise class. I know I must be patient, sometimes it's very hard for me.