Believe none of what they say and half of what they do.
I agree with Bond about not focusing on your W.
There is no way to know if she meant what she said Wednesday or whether what she said in mediation was true.
It could very well be a common belief that she may have meant both... and only at that moment she said it... Both could have come from a place of fear in her.
Now that you have your S for the year, do focus on you and him. Only with your W when urgent or legally necessary.