You've got to stop thinking about your W and what she is or isn't thinking. As far as I'm concerned, your W has shown her true colors time and time again. Let it go.
You won a major victory. Cherish the time with your son and you can pity your W.
Oh I would also be on guard twice as much now. Because now you have a woman who has nothing to lose. You never know what she'll do next. When she continues to spew her hateful comments, I would seriously start looking her in the eye and tell her that you will not be spoken to in that way again. And that she lost and you won - deal with it!
Time to start putting your foot down and leading.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.