@ Being - her problem is that until she deals with herself - she needs a scapegoat.
That's what JS is right now.
@ JS - I know this situation is rough.. but look through the pain and see some positives here. The fact that your character shines so brightly - through all the BS, all the pain - that people not only see it, they want to be part of it.
You have people who are fighting to have you in their lives. And yes - you did not ask them to or want the controversy surrounding it, but they fight nevertheless - because of who you are.. and how you have influenced them in a positive way.
I understand that this is not a competition and that you do not wish this from or for your xw, but do not underestimate what is happening here.
You have planted the seeds, take a moment to smell the roses. IMO - There is nothing wrong with admiring the growth of your flowers.
((( )))
M(f): 43 D'ed: 8/12
Show empathy when there's pain. Show grace when warranted. Kindness in the midst of anger. Faith in the face of fear.
