Christine - before a WAS droppes the bomb they are carrying a big burden - "Do I drop the bomb or not?" This puts them on edge and tension between you is tight. But after dropping the bomb that burden is lifted. If the tension of the Bomb can be handled then this might be a really good time to DB but remember He did make the decision and drop that bomb. DB your heart out but remember and follow all the DBing techniques - Don't pursue or do anything that will validate his decision to drop that bomb.
In my sitch C droped the bomb and immediately filed for D - In Ga you can get an uncontested D in as little as 30 days. By the time of the final hearing I felt that I had her almost persuaded to change her mind. Alas, she did not, but a vast improvement in our R and it continues to improve. In your sitch, his dropping the bomb might just release his burden and ease his mind enough that you can be successful in your DBing.
