Since Jan 1, my H has started to soften and not be so reactive. He was terrible to be with for awhile. He would cause conflicts out of thin air. Then it appeared that he really was making an effort to be nice. I thought that maybe he had made a New Year's resolution to be nice to me and to work things out. Well, I was wrong (?).
On Wednesday, my H said that he had plans to move out in Feb. Things seemed back to square one. Then our lives continued as if he never even said that. In fact, things are really going well between us. It's as if the old H has returned! He is kind an considerate and his foul moods seem to have disappeared. I believe that the A has fizzled out. We spend all of our free time together and that time is great.
Has anyone ever encountered this? I thought that the S was supposed to start emotionally distancing themselves. My H seems very nuch emotionally connected to me. He seems to be acting even better since he told me that he is leaving. Could he be having a change of heart? Is he relieved now that he has told me? I don't understand how things can be so good and yet he is leaving me? Does anyone have any experience with this?
Christine
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