Your H talks a lot like mine. As hurt as I am by his betrayal and as focused on him as I am, I am going to remind you to detach. I am working on it and it's not easy. I learned that some people can detach right away, for others it takes a while longer. For me, after 1yr, I still can't say I'm detached. I hate it that I can't!

Thinking of you...


M 42 H 39
T10 (-2yrs separation)
S8 D5
DD 7/30/11 (EA&PA)
Reconciled 6/2013
Separation in works 1/2017