Everything is just so confusing. I think you have to just keep on doing what you can and see where it leads you.
The other night H told me that he doesn't think we can get back together because he never wants to go through this amount of hurt again if we tried and failed.
While that's extremely hard to hear him say, whenever he's upset or has good news, I'm always the one that he goes to. He can be vulnerable around me.
So I'm trying to live by the "believe none of what they say and half of what they do" mantra.
I think our H's are scared and trying to figure out what they want. For right now, I'm doing my best not to put any pressure on him and see what happens.
Easier said than done though.
M36 XH34 M-5 T7 4/11 H confused 5/11 ILYB 6/11 OW discovered 7/11 I move out, OW over 5/12-OW2,done->new EA, but H wont file 9/12 H "best bf ever" to EA/OW3 3/13 H/OW break up H files 4/13 D 6/18/13