The girl at work who is our bookeeper came to me today, sat right next to me and whispered that she is telling me something in stricted confidence. UGH....her husband (who used to work here and is also a friend) is leaving her and their 3 kids (ages 10,8,6). She is understandably devastated and knew I would understand.
This completely stunned me. Her husband is such a family man and was totally devoted to his kids and wife but now....he's pulling all the typical WAH stuff on her. He told her she could have full custody of the kids, keep the house and he'll make the payment on it, but other than that...he's done.
I gave her some DB principles, told her about the books and emailed her the info along with Sandi's steps. I told her to call me anytime she needs to talk but other than that...I'm lost.
I was a terrible DB'er, I didn't have the strength to put it all into practice. I hope to God that she is able to use some of the info but hearing all of this brought up so many terrible memories.
T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43 bomb12/4/07 PA5/07 S12/26/07 D final 11/17/08 Back together with no defined R 05/2010 confused....to say the least!!!
