oh good! you got it. was worried about being too obscure!!! GRIN
I think he uses this self righteous I'm in a relationship now and we have to have very very clear boundaries to keep his blinders on so he doesn't have to look at his feelings...I think that's why Cheryl said to flirt and seduce..it's just coaxing him into spending time together. from brit
did want to explore this a tad bit more.
so i'm wondering - is it a good idea to call him babe?
that's what we called each other. that's what he fell back into calling me all night last week, without hesitation - in fact i never heard him say my name once in that weird way he's been doing all these months.
that's what i called him a few days later when he was showing off his gorgeous cooking for the party - and i got a pleased smile.
so i've been sort of waffling around with the idea of just slipping back into calling him babe, casually, and see what happens.
that's audacious!!! heck he just told me what he was planning to do = the last thing he would expect was me showing affection. otoh - i bet the last thing HE expected to do was get together an hour after he announced that
thoughts anyone?
me 46 H 38 M10yrs T 11 S10 BD ow 8/11 h filed 9/25/12
"if i could define enlightenment briefly, i would say it is the quiet acceptance of what is"
