Christine: Have you ever read any of RandyH's threads? His wife had someone else, moved out, they even divorced but she has (after 3 years) moved back home and are working on their relationship ever so slowly. I agree - let him do all the leg work and you need to go on working on you. There is nothing you can do to convince him to stay - he needs to get through this time on his own. I'm sorry - I know you want to shake him to make him wake up but I agree with the author - his guilt is killing him right now. He needs to face that guilt head on by himself and deal with it before he can really make things right with you - my opinion.
