GREAT ideas on thought stopping the anger triggers! I will definitely keep them in mind before I act on my feelings.

Originally Posted By: bustorama

The counter-intuitive part to the DB LRT is that the more you LOVINGLY and ACCEPTINGLY adopt the view that you are ok with not trying, that you accept that they don't want to try and, indeed, are done trying with someone who does not want to try with you, the more likely it is that they will want to try with you.


This was interesting because it is a mindset. I need to stop wanting to try without resorting to being a witch.

Today, I FINALLY went to a mtg! Topic was on letting go and letting God take care of it. I REALLY needed to hear this!


M 42 H 39
T10 (-2yrs separation)
S8 D5
DD 7/30/11 (EA&PA)
Reconciled 6/2013
Separation in works 1/2017