Feeling like a boomerang. Back again! ARG!!

[chatterbug]

Let her rest and go about your day. Enjoy those nice winter nights and get some GAL in. Work on your goals. And since your both are tired at night do some very small simple things. Leave a light on. Make a nice dinner and enjoy it. Make sure you have leftovers in the fridge for the both of you. Just do not say anything. Let her come to you.

If she asks what you made for dinner. Say I made this and I made extra. Enjoy it tonight or tomorrow for lunch. Good-night.

Thats it. Short and too the point. Your not looking for anything. Your just doing what any decent husband would do.

No expectations. Not chasing. Not being clingy. Just doing a good deed.

And leave it as that.

If nothing is mentioned. Then you have a nice lunch for two days.

Then in a few days do this again.

Your tired when you come home. So get some activities in that improve the house and improve your eating habits. I am talking an hour a night.

If there is something you have been lacking on. Start it up again. Slowly. And do it for yourself.

So follow the rule.

I do this for myself. To improve my life.

And apply it to cooking pasta to yard work.

And do not ask for anything in return.

And do not start doing all her tasks as well.

She can do them. And will know something is up.

You just do your share. And be active in the morning. When your both up.