Moved his stuff out..

[hopingandpraying]

Thank you for your input everyone! Sorry I have not responded. I have been doing a lot of GAL activities.

Well, my H came over yesterday to pick up the rest of his things and I even helped him...never thought I would do that. We caught up for like 10 mins and then when he was leaving he asked if we were going to talk the legal stuff of the divorce.

I just said "If you want the divorce then go get it..." He then suggested some online site to get divorced and I said ummm no. I am not getting divorced through an online site...it just seems weird and sketchy to me.

Then, after he left, he texted me asking if I found this picture frame and I said no it should be in your boxes. I then texted back to him and apologized to him for something that he said that I ssid that hurt him and I broke down and told him that I still don't think this is exactly the right thing to do because we were in a marriage and you work through everything, but then ended it with "I have moved on from you and hope that you find that true happiness you are looking for."

He actually responded with a really long text back:
"Ive been sitting here trying to find places to put all of this stuff and trying to figure out what to say to his. Of course I forgive you for that stuff and im sure many people would respond in the same way you did. I was just completely blind-sided by it. I know that I messed up and it really does hurt me that I hurt you and messed up even more of those trust issues that you have. I wil tell you that there are guys out there that are good and that you can trust and know this bc I used to think I wasa one of them but our unhappiness got the best of me I guess. I don't know how you don't think this is the right thing to do? It bothers me when you say that and makes me feel worse inside for a number of reasons but mainly I guess bc after all of this you can say that. I know ur not the type to back down but I cheated on you and we weren't happy. I would never allow myself to even go back to you bc of that bc its not fair to either one of us especially you. As for me, I hope I too find that true happiness and I thrive off it. I guess time will tell. I wish and hope the best for you, I really do mean that!"

I, of course, cried after he left and after this text. I know we're pretty much done, but I still don't want it! He still wants this divorce...