It's been a while! Things are going well. Hubby continues going to IC and it seems to be helping him very much. I feel like we are much closer. He is getting better at the transparency, openness thing- although sometimes he doesn't tell me things right away, but a few days later. But it is progress. As much as I feel like we are doing well in our marital recovery, I haven't let down my guard entirely. Besides Divorce Busting- I would like to recommend Dr. Harley's books: Surviving an Affair, His Needs, Her Needs and Love Busters. We have been reading these books together and they have really helped us have meaningful communication and put steps in place to make our marriage better than it was pre H's affair.
M:12yr 06/11:IDLYA 07/11:Moves out 08/11:PA disc(began in May) 09/11:Moves w OW 10/11:Breaks up w OW;gets apt 11&12/11: Touchngo w me 1/12: Comes home-PA resumes 2/12: PA disc; PA ends Today: Piecing