Feeling like a boomerang. Back again! ARG!!

[Serenity13]

Serenity is the only person I know who can weald a bow & arrow AND have a bazooka strapped to her back "just in case".

LOL.... Not sure that is the image I was trying to portray, but I like it

But I feel like I'm on the tightrope between action, which may pee the W off or lack of them with the same result.

Then take a step off the tightrope (you know the one you put yourself on ) As long as you continue to live in fear of making her mad or upset, the less chance you have of making this work a second time around.

I would recommend you go get some free council from a lawyer. Just so you know what you will need to do if you do need one.

I second this.... Even if it isn't free, you have got to know you have a leg to stand on. Try the law department at C.T. University, perhaps they can help or point you in the right direction.

I'm looking forward to saying to the W that she's right - I AM FINE.

While I understand this thought, she will just find something else to blame it on.

I really do feel the need to acknowledge she was right - Honey - I'M FINE!!!!

Why do you feel you need to acknowledge this? Honestly?

Serenity - one thing - my W is a wonderful, caring and innocent (in big dollops). She hasn't got a cunning bone in her body.

Let me burst that little bubble with one of the arrows from my back... She is female, therefore, she does have a cunning bone somewhere in her body. **Newsflash for the men, all women do.**

That doesn't make her evil, nor a witch, nor hateful, nor mean etc... It makes her human.

I have learned an awful lot in the past three years and I will admit the absolute hardest lesson to learn was to not read into anything (even to this day I still have times that I find myself doing it... Then I have to smack myself).

Reading your post, I can see that is going to be hard for you as well... But it has got to be done and take it from me, the sooner, the better.

CB gave you a line of advice that I will agree with -

Just live your life like you wished you should. And eventually it will become reality.

Mine did (in spades)... And I did it, without him

(((((Hugs)))))