I'm sorry it all seems like the efforts are one sided. That's tough! But it sounds like you are on the right track. I was going to recommend His Needs, Her Needs, but it sounds like you already read that. Another book i found helpful was Love Busters by Dr. Harley as well. He says that sometimes we can't make much progress building the "love bank" if there are love busters lurking in the background. Those love busters drain the love bank and don't allow love deposits to accummulate. Hope that makes sense. LOL.
M:12yr 06/11:IDLYA 07/11:Moves out 08/11:PA disc(began in May) 09/11:Moves w OW 10/11:Breaks up w OW;gets apt 11&12/11: Touchngo w me 1/12: Comes home-PA resumes 2/12: PA disc; PA ends Today: Piecing
