Congrats, Val! Your professional opportunities continue to be a testament to how you have grown and who you are. Awesome.

I may be projecting here..... but...

Could W be trying to test the waters? Posting on your friends' sites and how she is on the phone recently.. could she be sticking a toe in to see how warm it is?

Could it be time to be slightly more open to her... test if a tiny amount of warmth in return would result in her coming in further?

I wonder if we can DB too well (act as if and dark) so that they are scared to try..

It seems as if a DB principle is to change things up if they are not working, and I feel as if you still want your M to work...what do you think about changing things up just slightly by being a tiny bit more welcoming of her next email/call?..

of course, you have to decide if that is good for you... no expectations is hard.

Just a thought, Val..


Me(f): 51 W: 41
DP:8 M:3 T:10
"W not happy" 7/11
D final: 8/13