Cheryl's observations were really interesting. I was thinking something similar yesterday, that many of us LBS' are high achievers... and do our WAS' leave due to feeling inadequate in some way?
Culture has put such a high premium on success and career, what if they don't feel as if they measure up and instead of facing this, they project their anger and disappointment in themselves onto the M and the LBS. I would guess that is true especially for men who may feel even more pressure to provide.
Love that you recognized his contribution with your S. Beautiful.
Me(f): 51 W: 41 DP:8 M:3 T:10 "W not happy" 7/11 D final: 8/13