Purgalicious, glad to see you back in the official board. Your story can help a lot of other people, to see how you've handled your anger and pain with such dignity and class.
Is he leaving in two days now? How's everyone doing with that? Has he made any kind of schedule or arrangements for keeping in touch with the kids?
(I don't know Incubus, I'm going to go with ces and choose Sandwich.)
Adinva 51, S20, S18 M24 total 6/15/11-12/1/12 From IDLY to H moving out 9/15/15-3/7/17 From negotiating SA to final D at age 50 5/8/17-now: New relationship with an old friend __ Happiness is a warm puppy.