swimming with turtles and some guidance

[zig]

I am so happy to not be in the place I was even if I'm not in the place I want to be.

aah, brit - where did you learn to be so damn articulate? it's like you are the channeler on the boards right now - to be able to describe so CLEARLY your own and other's feelings

what comes to mind - this is almost the hardest place to be. when we were in the 'place we were' we couldn't feel the possibility of this other place. now we do, and it's still a journey to get there, and we want to get there faster than we actually can. instead of applying patience to our sitches and our spouses the real shift within ourselves is to start apply patience to ourselves

kd - when i wrote above that there's a shift - i didn't know what it was - now i do

I think that's why Cheryl said to flirt and seduce..it's just coaxing him into spending time together.

aaah - thanks for this - the last few days i simply couldn't remember or find the reasons for doing this - it's like they all flew out the window and i can't remember why i even thought i wanted to try


time for a new thread
((((brit )))) this morning!
zig